"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do girls think???

kegger

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Ok, I really would like to know 1. what is going through this girls head and 2. what in the heck am I suppose to do about it.

Well, I think I may have mentioned this before but its nerving.

This chick at a local hangout joint frickin is always staring at me, saying hi, etc.

I have her on msn/myspace and we chat some but I am always getting blown off with the I G2G and then I check myspace and she is still on 20 minutes later.

What do you think I should do as a revenge?

I can think of two options and know what I am going to do tomorrow.

If she is skating tomorrow, I am not looking at her, not even once. She can go **** herself right now for all I care.

Just wondering what you think?

Thanks
Kegger
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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for this type... just walk away. she didnt do anything to you.

maybe you didnt talk about something interesting to her... maybe.

for this.. walk away and just ignore her, unless she says hi... say hi back. dont bother starting conversations with her.

and if you do start convos with her (which isn't a BAD idea... but make sure they don't suck)...well, make sure they don't suck.
 

kegger

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I pretty much decided to just ignore her. I figure if she is at all interested, she will talk to me.

I logged myself out of msn and myspace for the night because I realized I was addicted. I am already having withdraws after five minutes.

I do hope she shows at that place Saturday because I have a date with an HB7.5, same as this girl. Maybe some jealousy will help.

Kegger
 

penkitten

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stop letting this chick get to you.
she is either ignoring you or she walks away from her computer at all the wrong times.
doesnt really matter which.

just ignore her back. dont let her get to you.

this is one of those times that you have to say,
i dont love her, i dont hate her, i just nothing her because it doesnt matter.


trust me on this one. if she wants to go for you, she will come around.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Shocker

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who forking cares?
 
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