"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do girls think???

kegger

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Ok, I really would like to know 1. what is going through this girls head and 2. what in the heck am I suppose to do about it.

Well, I think I may have mentioned this before but its nerving.

This chick at a local hangout joint frickin is always staring at me, saying hi, etc.

I have her on msn/myspace and we chat some but I am always getting blown off with the I G2G and then I check myspace and she is still on 20 minutes later.

What do you think I should do as a revenge?

I can think of two options and know what I am going to do tomorrow.

If she is skating tomorrow, I am not looking at her, not even once. She can go **** herself right now for all I care.

Just wondering what you think?

Thanks
Kegger
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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for this type... just walk away. she didnt do anything to you.

maybe you didnt talk about something interesting to her... maybe.

for this.. walk away and just ignore her, unless she says hi... say hi back. dont bother starting conversations with her.

and if you do start convos with her (which isn't a BAD idea... but make sure they don't suck)...well, make sure they don't suck.
 

kegger

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I pretty much decided to just ignore her. I figure if she is at all interested, she will talk to me.

I logged myself out of msn and myspace for the night because I realized I was addicted. I am already having withdraws after five minutes.

I do hope she shows at that place Saturday because I have a date with an HB7.5, same as this girl. Maybe some jealousy will help.

Kegger
 

penkitten

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stop letting this chick get to you.
she is either ignoring you or she walks away from her computer at all the wrong times.
doesnt really matter which.

just ignore her back. dont let her get to you.

this is one of those times that you have to say,
i dont love her, i dont hate her, i just nothing her because it doesnt matter.


trust me on this one. if she wants to go for you, she will come around.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Shocker

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who forking cares?
 
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