"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, I really would like to know 1. what is going through this girls head and 2. what in the heck am I suppose to do about it.

Well, I think I may have mentioned this before but its nerving.

This chick at a local hangout joint frickin is always staring at me, saying hi, etc.

I have her on msn/myspace and we chat some but I am always getting blown off with the I G2G and then I check myspace and she is still on 20 minutes later.

What do you think I should do as a revenge?

I can think of two options and know what I am going to do tomorrow.

If she is skating tomorrow, I am not looking at her, not even once. She can go **** herself right now for all I care.

Just wondering what you think?

Thanks
Kegger
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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for this type... just walk away. she didnt do anything to you.

maybe you didnt talk about something interesting to her... maybe.

for this.. walk away and just ignore her, unless she says hi... say hi back. dont bother starting conversations with her.

and if you do start convos with her (which isn't a BAD idea... but make sure they don't suck)...well, make sure they don't suck.
 
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I pretty much decided to just ignore her. I figure if she is at all interested, she will talk to me.

I logged myself out of msn and myspace for the night because I realized I was addicted. I am already having withdraws after five minutes.

I do hope she shows at that place Saturday because I have a date with an HB7.5, same as this girl. Maybe some jealousy will help.

Kegger
 
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stop letting this chick get to you.
she is either ignoring you or she walks away from her computer at all the wrong times.
doesnt really matter which.

just ignore her back. dont let her get to you.

this is one of those times that you have to say,
i dont love her, i dont hate her, i just nothing her because it doesnt matter.


trust me on this one. if she wants to go for you, she will come around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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who forking cares?
 
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