"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What DJ Type are you-Dog, Wolf, Lion, Dragon

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I am a timid dog.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tactic

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DJ fantasy?
 

Panda 2000

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I'm a goblin.
Oh come on, as if people aren't confused enough by needless classifications. I even hate the classification of people into DJ and AFC, it creates stupid stereotypes and whatnot. And then you get people saying "That music sucks because it's totally AFC", "Are pocket protectors DJ?" and "I was an AFC but thanks to PUA I soon became a RAFC and got a GF because I used C+F and was really alpha so now I think I'm a DJ or a RDFCM with slight hints of HRPPF because I use JRT and MMF+STFU"
I see people here sometimes don't even realize how stupid that sounds.
 

MindOverMatter

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I am Don Juan El Nino. All other tropical storms bow before El Nino! For those that do not "habla espanol," El Nino is Spanish for: THE NINO!
Lol, man I miss Farley.

About the topic, who made up these ranks? I hate classification period. I'd never call myself a DJ period. I'm an average guy that hooks up on a regular basis, nothing more, nothing less. I don't need a label or a rank.

As for the ranks themselves, are we playing dungeons n dragons or picking up women? What's with the dorky names? What's a dog/wolf/lion/dragon got to do with picking up women? Stop trying to build a retarded status online and just go hook up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Silver_Grizzly

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Guess what animal I am.
Tiger > Lion

dragon sounds like a title for the troll DJ
dont exist,
unless you mean komodo dragon :)
 

MindOverMatter

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Lifeforce's bicep flexing dragon DJ joke in that other thread makes a lot more sense to me now, lol. I didn't know Milli was the genius behind this post.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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I hate the idea that everyone who starts in the game from day one is an AFC.

I came here without much real experience with women. I had never approached a chick. So, when I started approaching, I did so with the mindset of a DJ.
 

Gonzalo

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So if I'm between Lion and Tiger, would that make me a.... LIGER?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diplomatic_lies

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
So if I'm between Lion and Tiger, would that make me a.... LIGER?
Yeah but you also gotta have skills, like with the bo staff.


I can't believe I'm quoting from that sh1t movie!
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by diablo
Read what you wrote:

"A Dragon DJ can hit beautiful women on a consistent basis."

That's called physical battery/abuse. :p
I hit women... WITH MY CAR!!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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No offensth guy or anythhhing but thhissth thhreads title is gayer thhan me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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