"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What did she mean this?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like she made a joke lol.
 

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It means she is mixed ethnicity...German, Native American and Black.

Not too bright are we?
 

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Also I only asked what kind of car she drives because can't have women at this halfway house and she said her mom and grandmother (who is sick) lives with her so we wouldn't have privacy.

I have no money and I'm not working right now. She came by the other night and we drank vodka in her vehicle and just talked. Will see her again Sunday. She works a lot. She really likes me though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Also I only asked what kind of car she drives because can't have women at this halfway house and she said her mom and grandmother (who is sick) lives with her so we wouldn't have privacy.

I have no money and I'm not working right now. She came by the other night and we drank vodka in her vehicle and just talked. Will see her again Sunday. She works a lot. She really likes me though.
Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?
 

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Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?
Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.

I like to get their motor running if you know what I'm saying.

Also i cut the interaction short and said i had to go.
 
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Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
 

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I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.
 

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I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.
Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"

Yeah we don't like to give validation to woman from the very beginning i get what you are doing but there are so many ways that you can not give validation to woman and a kiss is just the starting point.

I personally always go for the kiss and never had any problems, hence one time a 10 i was out was not giving me much signs i went for the kiss and she was sucking my finger till her throat.

Just saying always go for the kiss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"

Yeah we don't like to give validation to woman from the very beginning i get what you are doing but there are so many ways that you can not give validation to woman and a kiss is just the starting point.

I personally always go for the kiss and never had any problems, hence one time a 10 i was out was not giving me much signs i went for the kiss and she was sucking my finger till her throat.

Just saying always go for the kiss.
Well tomorrow is the 2nd meeting. Maybe I'll. Go for then or on the 3rd meet.
 

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A woman with some humor! Where did you find this? If you don't last with this chick PM me her number please.
 

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A woman with some humor! Where did you find this? If you don't last with this chick PM me her number please.
He wont last...bum ass dudes only have so long of a shelf life with women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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