Soflobro#3
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Giraffes have long necks. Pretty sure she was indirectly telling me she deep throats.Sounds like she made a joke lol.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?Also I only asked what kind of car she drives because can't have women at this halfway house and she said her mom and grandmother (who is sick) lives with her so we wouldn't have privacy.
I have no money and I'm not working right now. She came by the other night and we drank vodka in her vehicle and just talked. Will see her again Sunday. She works a lot. She really likes me though.
Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.
Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.
But hey your game your rules.
I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.I agree that everyone has their own style of game.
Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.
But hey your game your rules.
Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well tomorrow is the 2nd meeting. Maybe I'll. Go for then or on the 3rd meet.Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"
Yeah we don't like to give validation to woman from the very beginning i get what you are doing but there are so many ways that you can not give validation to woman and a kiss is just the starting point.
I personally always go for the kiss and never had any problems, hence one time a 10 i was out was not giving me much signs i went for the kiss and she was sucking my finger till her throat.
Just saying always go for the kiss.
You seriously believe that ?...Giraffes have long necks. Pretty sure she was indirectly telling me she deep throats.
Not a %100. 50/50You seriously believe that ?...
He wont last...bum ass dudes only have so long of a shelf life with women.A woman with some humor! Where did you find this? If you don't last with this chick PM me her number please.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Salty. What do you care anyways?He wont last...bum ass dudes only have so long of a shelf life with women.