"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What did she mean this?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like she made a joke lol.
 
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It means she is mixed ethnicity...German, Native American and Black.

Not too bright are we?
 
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Also I only asked what kind of car she drives because can't have women at this halfway house and she said her mom and grandmother (who is sick) lives with her so we wouldn't have privacy.

I have no money and I'm not working right now. She came by the other night and we drank vodka in her vehicle and just talked. Will see her again Sunday. She works a lot. She really likes me though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Soflobro#3 said:
Also I only asked what kind of car she drives because can't have women at this halfway house and she said her mom and grandmother (who is sick) lives with her so we wouldn't have privacy.

I have no money and I'm not working right now. She came by the other night and we drank vodka in her vehicle and just talked. Will see her again Sunday. She works a lot. She really likes me though.
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Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?
 
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MichaelA said:
Just talked? what kind of beta situation is this? why not escalate for kiss?
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Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.

I like to get their motor running if you know what I'm saying.

Also i cut the interaction short and said i had to go.
 
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Soflobro#3 said:
Because i like to make them wait a bit. It makes them wonder if i really like /am attracted to them. Everyone has their own style of game. Besides she went out of her way to come see me and brought alcohol.
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I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
 
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MichaelA said:
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
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MichaelA said:
I agree that everyone has their own style of game.

Personally i prefer to always go for the kiss as it builds the tension for the next time she is around.

But hey your game your rules.
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I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.
 
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I think I'll get some head tomorrow. Problem is that I have a 10pm curfew so if I drink it needs to be early so I'm good by the time I come back. Also she works a lot and often times 2nd shift so its difficult. Shes coming to scoop me up on her day off.
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Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"

Yeah we don't like to give validation to woman from the very beginning i get what you are doing but there are so many ways that you can not give validation to woman and a kiss is just the starting point.

I personally always go for the kiss and never had any problems, hence one time a 10 i was out was not giving me much signs i went for the kiss and she was sucking my finger till her throat.

Just saying always go for the kiss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Great let her come and escalate for something. But trust me when a girl buys something and comes to u and you don't escalate to do something in hear head she may go "i bought something went to see him and got nothing in return"

Yeah we don't like to give validation to woman from the very beginning i get what you are doing but there are so many ways that you can not give validation to woman and a kiss is just the starting point.

I personally always go for the kiss and never had any problems, hence one time a 10 i was out was not giving me much signs i went for the kiss and she was sucking my finger till her throat.

Just saying always go for the kiss.
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Well tomorrow is the 2nd meeting. Maybe I'll. Go for then or on the 3rd meet.
 
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A woman with some humor! Where did you find this? If you don't last with this chick PM me her number please.
 
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A woman with some humor! Where did you find this? If you don't last with this chick PM me her number please.
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He wont last...bum ass dudes only have so long of a shelf life with women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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