"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What did I do wrong

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I've been talking with this HB8 from my school for a couple of weeks (MSN and school). I've always teased her and stuff (I dont want her, I just needed practice). And two days ago, she came on MSN, and began to copy/paste conversations she had with a guy named Chris and asking me advices to get him, etc.

How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is an IOI mate.

She's trying to show you other guys are interested in her. It's a good sign not a bad. She's trying to see if she can shake you - how much you need her, how much you want her.


Bust on her for it. One of my favourate lines for this situation (which I didn't make up btw ;) David D I think- credit where it's due)


'Awww you have a wee fweend do you?' (spelled to show the pronounciation)

(pause)

"That's real progress for you!"

(pause)

"keep up the good behavior. Maybie more people will like you!"

This shows that you're of so high value that you don't need her AND that you get what she's doing. ;)


Best of luck mate.

And you're doing the right thing practicing with chicks you definately don't want at first. (nothing helps you get used to the idea of pretending you don't want the chick better ;) )
 

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How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't. [/B]

Read that bit of your post again and notice that you do give a sh1t about it Otherwise you wouldn't have posted here and you would have shrugged your shoulders and said 'oh well' probibly even typed the right thing anyway.

No point deluding yourself. However, don't worry about it. It'll all come together for you in time ;)
 

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damn you're right about it. You opened my eyes, and thanks for the line buddy! :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
 

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Originally posted by doctor
This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
Me? try to get somewhere? with you...hahaha...don't make me laugh.:crackup: ;)

Still, good advice.
 
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