"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been talking with this HB8 from my school for a couple of weeks (MSN and school). I've always teased her and stuff (I dont want her, I just needed practice). And two days ago, she came on MSN, and began to copy/paste conversations she had with a guy named Chris and asking me advices to get him, etc.

How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is an IOI mate.

She's trying to show you other guys are interested in her. It's a good sign not a bad. She's trying to see if she can shake you - how much you need her, how much you want her.


Bust on her for it. One of my favourate lines for this situation (which I didn't make up btw ;) David D I think- credit where it's due)


'Awww you have a wee fweend do you?' (spelled to show the pronounciation)

(pause)

"That's real progress for you!"

(pause)

"keep up the good behavior. Maybie more people will like you!"

This shows that you're of so high value that you don't need her AND that you get what she's doing. ;)


Best of luck mate.

And you're doing the right thing practicing with chicks you definately don't want at first. (nothing helps you get used to the idea of pretending you don't want the chick better ;) )
 
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How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't. [/B]
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Read that bit of your post again and notice that you do give a sh1t about it Otherwise you wouldn't have posted here and you would have shrugged your shoulders and said 'oh well' probibly even typed the right thing anyway.

No point deluding yourself. However, don't worry about it. It'll all come together for you in time ;)
 
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damn you're right about it. You opened my eyes, and thanks for the line buddy! :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
 
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Originally posted by doctor
This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
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Me? try to get somewhere? with you...hahaha...don't make me laugh.:crackup: ;)

Still, good advice.
 
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