"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been talking with this HB8 from my school for a couple of weeks (MSN and school). I've always teased her and stuff (I dont want her, I just needed practice). And two days ago, she came on MSN, and began to copy/paste conversations she had with a guy named Chris and asking me advices to get him, etc.

How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is an IOI mate.

She's trying to show you other guys are interested in her. It's a good sign not a bad. She's trying to see if she can shake you - how much you need her, how much you want her.


Bust on her for it. One of my favourate lines for this situation (which I didn't make up btw ;) David D I think- credit where it's due)


'Awww you have a wee fweend do you?' (spelled to show the pronounciation)

(pause)

"That's real progress for you!"

(pause)

"keep up the good behavior. Maybie more people will like you!"

This shows that you're of so high value that you don't need her AND that you get what she's doing. ;)


Best of luck mate.

And you're doing the right thing practicing with chicks you definately don't want at first. (nothing helps you get used to the idea of pretending you don't want the chick better ;) )
 
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How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't. [/B]
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Read that bit of your post again and notice that you do give a sh1t about it Otherwise you wouldn't have posted here and you would have shrugged your shoulders and said 'oh well' probibly even typed the right thing anyway.

No point deluding yourself. However, don't worry about it. It'll all come together for you in time ;)
 
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damn you're right about it. You opened my eyes, and thanks for the line buddy! :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
 
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Originally posted by doctor
This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
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Me? try to get somewhere? with you...hahaha...don't make me laugh.:crackup: ;)

Still, good advice.
 
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