"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've been talking with this HB8 from my school for a couple of weeks (MSN and school). I've always teased her and stuff (I dont want her, I just needed practice). And two days ago, she came on MSN, and began to copy/paste conversations she had with a guy named Chris and asking me advices to get him, etc.

How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is an IOI mate.

She's trying to show you other guys are interested in her. It's a good sign not a bad. She's trying to see if she can shake you - how much you need her, how much you want her.


Bust on her for it. One of my favourate lines for this situation (which I didn't make up btw ;) David D I think- credit where it's due)


'Awww you have a wee fweend do you?' (spelled to show the pronounciation)

(pause)

"That's real progress for you!"

(pause)

"keep up the good behavior. Maybie more people will like you!"

This shows that you're of so high value that you don't need her AND that you get what she's doing. ;)


Best of luck mate.

And you're doing the right thing practicing with chicks you definately don't want at first. (nothing helps you get used to the idea of pretending you don't want the chick better ;) )
 
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How should I tell her that I dont give a **** about her relationship with other guys...because I honestly don't. [/B]
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Read that bit of your post again and notice that you do give a sh1t about it Otherwise you wouldn't have posted here and you would have shrugged your shoulders and said 'oh well' probibly even typed the right thing anyway.

No point deluding yourself. However, don't worry about it. It'll all come together for you in time ;)
 
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damn you're right about it. You opened my eyes, and thanks for the line buddy! :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
 
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Originally posted by doctor
This complement thing will get you nowhere with me Real I'm not like all the other guys :p ;) :D

Cheers mate.
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Me? try to get somewhere? with you...hahaha...don't make me laugh.:crackup: ;)

Still, good advice.
 
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