Dhoulmagus
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If reincarnation does exist, I am sorry for the previous acts committed by myself. I dont deserve this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What did I do to deserve this femaless lifestyle
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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BeDJ
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I can provide you 72 Virgins at your service, if you are interested.
The title of this post says it all...
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dhoulmagus
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It is my location for sure and it has vastly drained my attitude. I cant do anything about it until I graduate college. I feel like Im serving a prison sentence.
SgtSplacker
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There are some things in life you have to be honest with because you just cant lie to these things. Personal value is one of them. If you are not up to par with your age and life in general then you will be single for a long time.
Time to MAN up!
Time to MAN up!
Dhoulmagus
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I'm in college and I see bums with girls all the timeSgtSplacker said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SgtSplacker
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You don't know what that bums deal is man. You don't know if she is using him for free crack or something. There is an easy way to women now that I think about it, lol. Start selling coke!
Right. That sh!t doesn't mean much in real life and it definitely doesn't mean anything in college. For the average looking dude; game, alpha mindset, attitude, whatever you wanna call it is most important. I don't understand why this has to be repeated over and over again. Back when we were hunter gatherers dudes didn't have money or a stable job. The only way a woman could judge a man's value was through his looks and his "game." The tiny span of modern civilization isn't going to change that. Since you're presumably an average looking dude and black dudes get laid in the south all the time the only logical conclusion is that your game is weak. Perhaps you're right though, maybe you live in an extra racist part of the south :crackup:Dhoulmagus said:
Seriously though stop whining and make the best of your situation.
HyperAnalyze
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You need to start taking RIGHT ACTION.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Jair213
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first and for most start hitting the GYM HARD!!!
foreverAFC
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this guys sounds a lot like bud bundy, quit moping around and find something to do, i didnt get women in college either so i quit partying and focused on judo/jiu jitsu instead
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.