Dhoulmagus
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If reincarnation does exist, I am sorry for the previous acts committed by myself. I dont deserve this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What did I do to deserve this femaless lifestyle
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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BeDJ
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I can provide you 72 Virgins at your service, if you are interested.
The title of this post says it all...
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dhoulmagus
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It is my location for sure and it has vastly drained my attitude. I cant do anything about it until I graduate college. I feel like Im serving a prison sentence.
SgtSplacker
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There are some things in life you have to be honest with because you just cant lie to these things. Personal value is one of them. If you are not up to par with your age and life in general then you will be single for a long time.
Time to MAN up!
Time to MAN up!
Dhoulmagus
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I'm in college and I see bums with girls all the timeSgtSplacker said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SgtSplacker
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You don't know what that bums deal is man. You don't know if she is using him for free crack or something. There is an easy way to women now that I think about it, lol. Start selling coke!
Right. That sh!t doesn't mean much in real life and it definitely doesn't mean anything in college. For the average looking dude; game, alpha mindset, attitude, whatever you wanna call it is most important. I don't understand why this has to be repeated over and over again. Back when we were hunter gatherers dudes didn't have money or a stable job. The only way a woman could judge a man's value was through his looks and his "game." The tiny span of modern civilization isn't going to change that. Since you're presumably an average looking dude and black dudes get laid in the south all the time the only logical conclusion is that your game is weak. Perhaps you're right though, maybe you live in an extra racist part of the south :crackup:Dhoulmagus said:
Seriously though stop whining and make the best of your situation.
HyperAnalyze
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You need to start taking RIGHT ACTION.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Jair213
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first and for most start hitting the GYM HARD!!!
foreverAFC
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this guys sounds a lot like bud bundy, quit moping around and find something to do, i didnt get women in college either so i quit partying and focused on judo/jiu jitsu instead
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.