Dhoulmagus
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If reincarnation does exist, I am sorry for the previous acts committed by myself. I dont deserve this.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What did I do to deserve this femaless lifestyle
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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BeDJ
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I can provide you 72 Virgins at your service, if you are interested.
The title of this post says it all...
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dhoulmagus
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It is my location for sure and it has vastly drained my attitude. I cant do anything about it until I graduate college. I feel like Im serving a prison sentence.
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There are some things in life you have to be honest with because you just cant lie to these things. Personal value is one of them. If you are not up to par with your age and life in general then you will be single for a long time.
Time to MAN up!
Time to MAN up!
Dhoulmagus
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I'm in college and I see bums with girls all the timeSgtSplacker said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You don't know what that bums deal is man. You don't know if she is using him for free crack or something. There is an easy way to women now that I think about it, lol. Start selling coke!
Right. That sh!t doesn't mean much in real life and it definitely doesn't mean anything in college. For the average looking dude; game, alpha mindset, attitude, whatever you wanna call it is most important. I don't understand why this has to be repeated over and over again. Back when we were hunter gatherers dudes didn't have money or a stable job. The only way a woman could judge a man's value was through his looks and his "game." The tiny span of modern civilization isn't going to change that. Since you're presumably an average looking dude and black dudes get laid in the south all the time the only logical conclusion is that your game is weak. Perhaps you're right though, maybe you live in an extra racist part of the south :crackup:Dhoulmagus said:
Seriously though stop whining and make the best of your situation.
HyperAnalyze
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You need to start taking RIGHT ACTION.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Jair213
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first and for most start hitting the GYM HARD!!!
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this guys sounds a lot like bud bundy, quit moping around and find something to do, i didnt get women in college either so i quit partying and focused on judo/jiu jitsu instead
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.