Dhoulmagus
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If reincarnation does exist, I am sorry for the previous acts committed by myself. I dont deserve this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What did I do to deserve this femaless lifestyle
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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BeDJ
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I can provide you 72 Virgins at your service, if you are interested.
The title of this post says it all...
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
You're putting your life in the hands of fate, God, luck or some other outside force, when you really need to be taking it into your own hands and creating the life you want for yourself.
If you're not getting female attention, there is a reason. Take a hard look at yourself and then work on becoming the type of man women will go for.
Some of us have natural advantages in life, good genes, good upbringing and so on, but ultimately we all create our own destiny!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dhoulmagus
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It is my location for sure and it has vastly drained my attitude. I cant do anything about it until I graduate college. I feel like Im serving a prison sentence.
SgtSplacker
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There are some things in life you have to be honest with because you just cant lie to these things. Personal value is one of them. If you are not up to par with your age and life in general then you will be single for a long time.
Time to MAN up!
Time to MAN up!
Dhoulmagus
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I'm in college and I see bums with girls all the timeSgtSplacker said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SgtSplacker
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You don't know what that bums deal is man. You don't know if she is using him for free crack or something. There is an easy way to women now that I think about it, lol. Start selling coke!
Right. That sh!t doesn't mean much in real life and it definitely doesn't mean anything in college. For the average looking dude; game, alpha mindset, attitude, whatever you wanna call it is most important. I don't understand why this has to be repeated over and over again. Back when we were hunter gatherers dudes didn't have money or a stable job. The only way a woman could judge a man's value was through his looks and his "game." The tiny span of modern civilization isn't going to change that. Since you're presumably an average looking dude and black dudes get laid in the south all the time the only logical conclusion is that your game is weak. Perhaps you're right though, maybe you live in an extra racist part of the south :crackup:Dhoulmagus said:
Seriously though stop whining and make the best of your situation.
HyperAnalyze
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You need to start taking RIGHT ACTION.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Sure these girls are with bums.... but do you realize how much different the bum is compared to you? There is something surely wrong here.
Start focusing on your own happiness and don't allow the importance of women get in the way of your own self.
Jair213
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first and for most start hitting the GYM HARD!!!
foreverAFC
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this guys sounds a lot like bud bundy, quit moping around and find something to do, i didnt get women in college either so i quit partying and focused on judo/jiu jitsu instead
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.