"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what country would you move to and why?

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I got to go with saudi arabia and maybe canada toronto that is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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United States. Would love to drive on collins avenue to Miami Beach. Fish a bridge at night.
 

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Stay here in the US. Maybe go to a more exciting area like LV, Miami Beach…. SF is pretty. But social scene is too low key nowadays.
 

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Hi Eli,
I used to do consultancy work for a group that supervised the construction of Embassies in amongst other places Saudi Arabia.....Two Guys there did long tours of duty over there,from what they told me,they would have preferred Alcatraz or Devils Island LOL.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lebanon:
You can not only purchase rocket launchers over the counter, but target shoot at something more lively than paper, all without the cops hassling you. Provided you're aiming in Tel Aviv's direction
 

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Hi Eli,
I used to do consultancy work for a group that supervised the construction of Embassies in amongst other places Saudi Arabia.....Two Guys there did long tours of duty over there,from what they told me,they would have preferred Alcatraz or Devils Island LOL.
why?
 

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Hi Eli,
Unless you have won the lottery,Isn't this all a little hypothetical?
 

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Italy, because the women are the best in the world.
 

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/s
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I might have said Canada at one time, but they seem to have slipped too far into Communism for my taste. They don't even have the right to free speech there.
 

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I might have said Canada at one time, but they seem to have slipped too far into Communism for my taste. They don't even have the right to free speech there.
I'm not sure any other country has free speech rights like the US. Many of the other developed countries have made being offensive into a civil tort, so if you hurt my feelings I get to sue you. But it only seems to be enforced against people the government doesn't like.
 
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