"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What Chivalrous stuff/moves do you do to women on a date?

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Do you open up doors for them? Do you open up their car door for them when they'e about to leave the car ? Do you let them walk at the protected side when you're walking them on a sidewalk? Do you pull up their chairs before they're about to sit at a restaurant? Do you walk them home after a date so they can be safe? Do you call them after a date anyways to see if they got home safe even though you didn't end up liking her? Got any more examples of this? Lol haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think Chivalry is great when you're not really an @ss kisser of women but just a decent person and would help out anyone whether it's a dude or a chick and whatever the situation is calling for. When you're being chivalrous, I think it's gotta have somewhat of an Aloof vibe to it ya know...like 'I'm doing this from the goodness of my heart, but whatever, I've got better crap to do that I'm eager for'.
 

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Chivalry is something you do when the situation calls for it and not something you do as a matter of course. I.e. not going out of your way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Making her *** first - what a funny guy

I do all the "classic" stuff. When I take girls out on dates I like to show that I am considerate and take an interest in them. I can't say that it hurts even if doesn't work out fo rwhatever reason
 

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When rageful toward her, I confine myself to hurling pies in her face, than a gallon of battery acid
 

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If most of your chivalry that you do don't have the vibe of a James Bond playfully interacting with Money Penny or an aloof laid back vibe at the very least, then you have to question your intentions. Never kiss @ss dudes.
 

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Do you open up doors for them? Do you open up their car door for them when they'e about to leave the car ? Do you let them walk at the protected side when you're walking them on a sidewalk? Do you pull up their chairs before they're about to sit at a restaurant? Do you walk them home after a date so they can be safe? Do you call them after a date anyways to see if they got home safe even though you didn't end up liking her? Got any more examples of this? Lol haha.
Hi Travels,
Yes I do all of that and more,it was ingrained since Childhood and is one of the reasons that except for National Servive and time on remote stations I have never been without Female companionship for 65+years...Even when my Gang were Remodelling a knocking shop,I always held doors,behaved politely to all, and believe me some of those "Ladies"were real Skanks.
 
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