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What Chivalrous stuff/moves do you do to women on a date?

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Do you open up doors for them? Do you open up their car door for them when they'e about to leave the car ? Do you let them walk at the protected side when you're walking them on a sidewalk? Do you pull up their chairs before they're about to sit at a restaurant? Do you walk them home after a date so they can be safe? Do you call them after a date anyways to see if they got home safe even though you didn't end up liking her? Got any more examples of this? Lol haha.
 

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I think Chivalry is great when you're not really an @ss kisser of women but just a decent person and would help out anyone whether it's a dude or a chick and whatever the situation is calling for. When you're being chivalrous, I think it's gotta have somewhat of an Aloof vibe to it ya know...like 'I'm doing this from the goodness of my heart, but whatever, I've got better crap to do that I'm eager for'.
 

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Chivalry is something you do when the situation calls for it and not something you do as a matter of course. I.e. not going out of your way.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Making her *** first - what a funny guy

I do all the "classic" stuff. When I take girls out on dates I like to show that I am considerate and take an interest in them. I can't say that it hurts even if doesn't work out fo rwhatever reason
 

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When rageful toward her, I confine myself to hurling pies in her face, than a gallon of battery acid
 

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If most of your chivalry that you do don't have the vibe of a James Bond playfully interacting with Money Penny or an aloof laid back vibe at the very least, then you have to question your intentions. Never kiss @ss dudes.
 

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Do you open up doors for them? Do you open up their car door for them when they'e about to leave the car ? Do you let them walk at the protected side when you're walking them on a sidewalk? Do you pull up their chairs before they're about to sit at a restaurant? Do you walk them home after a date so they can be safe? Do you call them after a date anyways to see if they got home safe even though you didn't end up liking her? Got any more examples of this? Lol haha.
Hi Travels,
Yes I do all of that and more,it was ingrained since Childhood and is one of the reasons that except for National Servive and time on remote stations I have never been without Female companionship for 65+years...Even when my Gang were Remodelling a knocking shop,I always held doors,behaved politely to all, and believe me some of those "Ladies"were real Skanks.
 
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