parkthebus
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Thoughts?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What causes the attention ***** to be?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Obsessive personal insecurity. A feeling of being less than others and thereby the need to prove to herself that she is acceptable compared to other women if not superior in status to them depending on how she perscieves herself to be in relation to other females.
marmel75
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This is just a silly topic.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
SmooveMooves
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There's an epidemic of posters who want to circle jerk about the evils of women. Rather than discuss how to fūck them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
parkthebus
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I'm not saying women are evil, nor am I saying this behaviour is in some way immoral. Attention ***** is just a term used to describe a woman that is obviously trying to hog everyones attention.
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
parkthebus
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But what you just said isnt an answer because the question is why do some need it more than others? What motivates their behaviours?