parkthebus
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Thoughts?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What causes the attention ***** to be?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Obsessive personal insecurity. A feeling of being less than others and thereby the need to prove to herself that she is acceptable compared to other women if not superior in status to them depending on how she perscieves herself to be in relation to other females.
marmel75
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This is just a silly topic.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
SmooveMooves
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There's an epidemic of posters who want to circle jerk about the evils of women. Rather than discuss how to fūck them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
parkthebus
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I'm not saying women are evil, nor am I saying this behaviour is in some way immoral. Attention ***** is just a term used to describe a woman that is obviously trying to hog everyones attention.
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
parkthebus
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But what you just said isnt an answer because the question is why do some need it more than others? What motivates their behaviours?