parkthebus
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Thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What causes the attention ***** to be?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Obsessive personal insecurity. A feeling of being less than others and thereby the need to prove to herself that she is acceptable compared to other women if not superior in status to them depending on how she perscieves herself to be in relation to other females.
marmel75
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This is just a silly topic.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
SmooveMooves
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There's an epidemic of posters who want to circle jerk about the evils of women. Rather than discuss how to fūck them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
parkthebus
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I'm not saying women are evil, nor am I saying this behaviour is in some way immoral. Attention ***** is just a term used to describe a woman that is obviously trying to hog everyones attention.
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
parkthebus
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But what you just said isnt an answer because the question is why do some need it more than others? What motivates their behaviours?