parkthebus
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Thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What causes the attention ***** to be?
- Thread starter parkthebus
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Obsessive personal insecurity. A feeling of being less than others and thereby the need to prove to herself that she is acceptable compared to other women if not superior in status to them depending on how she perscieves herself to be in relation to other females.
marmel75
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This is just a silly topic.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
Women thrive on attention. Simple as that. It's like a drug to them. No need to over analyze, overthink or get into a long philosophical debate.
I mean, it is so obvious, there shouldn't need to be a topic about it.
SmooveMooves
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There's an epidemic of posters who want to circle jerk about the evils of women. Rather than discuss how to fūck them.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
parkthebus
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I'm not saying women are evil, nor am I saying this behaviour is in some way immoral. Attention ***** is just a term used to describe a woman that is obviously trying to hog everyones attention.
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
And I don't think the topic is silly. I can phrase the question differently which might make it more approachable for you. What causes some people to want to dominate attention on a level that is far beyond any other persons.
I say person not women because you have to remember that men generally enjoy attention as well they just have to behave differently to receive it. I'm not sure its that these people are simply are more adept at garnering attention or perhaps they have had experiences with other people (probably father figure) that has made them this way.
So the question is not why do women attention seek, but what causes some to do so a lot more than others?
parkthebus
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But what you just said isnt an answer because the question is why do some need it more than others? What motivates their behaviours?