"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What caused YOUR breakthrough with women?

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Just thought I'd start this thread to learn some more about possible things to improve on so I'll have a more "rounded game" rather than just relying on my body language and strong flirting skills when it comes to women. I'd like to hear what other people have done that really caused there breakthrough into pulling the babes that you reallly wanted. I think this will definitely help some beginning PUA develop their game as well. As I said my bereakthrough came through developing body language and flirting skills.. what caused yours?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pdx1138

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body language, flirting skills, reading HER body language.

What got their eyes on me was losing 20lbs to my ideal weight.
 

The Experience

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Reading, learning, applying. Stay away from the girlfriend trap, and develop who you want to be.
 

Masculinity

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Hah, I love how people just steal my ideas of how to word threads
 

EastWind

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It seems like you want to hear from us something that will enable you overnight to bed hotties.

There is no "breakthrough" in this game. You come here, you read some things, either you reject them or realization starts to dawn on you, you apply some two-liners you read on here, earn some minor success...

But really, it's just a long walk, along which you will gather experience slowly and learn to deal with everything that's happening to you along its way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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