"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What caused YOUR breakthrough with women?

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Just thought I'd start this thread to learn some more about possible things to improve on so I'll have a more "rounded game" rather than just relying on my body language and strong flirting skills when it comes to women. I'd like to hear what other people have done that really caused there breakthrough into pulling the babes that you reallly wanted. I think this will definitely help some beginning PUA develop their game as well. As I said my bereakthrough came through developing body language and flirting skills.. what caused yours?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pdx1138

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body language, flirting skills, reading HER body language.

What got their eyes on me was losing 20lbs to my ideal weight.
 

The Experience

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Reading, learning, applying. Stay away from the girlfriend trap, and develop who you want to be.
 

Masculinity

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Hah, I love how people just steal my ideas of how to word threads
 

EastWind

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It seems like you want to hear from us something that will enable you overnight to bed hotties.

There is no "breakthrough" in this game. You come here, you read some things, either you reject them or realization starts to dawn on you, you apply some two-liners you read on here, earn some minor success...

But really, it's just a long walk, along which you will gather experience slowly and learn to deal with everything that's happening to you along its way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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