"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What caused YOUR breakthrough with women?

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Just thought I'd start this thread to learn some more about possible things to improve on so I'll have a more "rounded game" rather than just relying on my body language and strong flirting skills when it comes to women. I'd like to hear what other people have done that really caused there breakthrough into pulling the babes that you reallly wanted. I think this will definitely help some beginning PUA develop their game as well. As I said my bereakthrough came through developing body language and flirting skills.. what caused yours?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pdx1138

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body language, flirting skills, reading HER body language.

What got their eyes on me was losing 20lbs to my ideal weight.
 

The Experience

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Reading, learning, applying. Stay away from the girlfriend trap, and develop who you want to be.
 

Masculinity

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Hah, I love how people just steal my ideas of how to word threads
 

EastWind

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It seems like you want to hear from us something that will enable you overnight to bed hotties.

There is no "breakthrough" in this game. You come here, you read some things, either you reject them or realization starts to dawn on you, you apply some two-liners you read on here, earn some minor success...

But really, it's just a long walk, along which you will gather experience slowly and learn to deal with everything that's happening to you along its way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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