"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What caused YOUR breakthrough with women?

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Just thought I'd start this thread to learn some more about possible things to improve on so I'll have a more "rounded game" rather than just relying on my body language and strong flirting skills when it comes to women. I'd like to hear what other people have done that really caused there breakthrough into pulling the babes that you reallly wanted. I think this will definitely help some beginning PUA develop their game as well. As I said my bereakthrough came through developing body language and flirting skills.. what caused yours?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pdx1138

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body language, flirting skills, reading HER body language.

What got their eyes on me was losing 20lbs to my ideal weight.
 

The Experience

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Reading, learning, applying. Stay away from the girlfriend trap, and develop who you want to be.
 

Masculinity

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Hah, I love how people just steal my ideas of how to word threads
 

EastWind

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It seems like you want to hear from us something that will enable you overnight to bed hotties.

There is no "breakthrough" in this game. You come here, you read some things, either you reject them or realization starts to dawn on you, you apply some two-liners you read on here, earn some minor success...

But really, it's just a long walk, along which you will gather experience slowly and learn to deal with everything that's happening to you along its way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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