Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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brenbaus

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hey guys,

I only have one question, how do you develop your chest ( I have an underdeveloped chest, and it bothers the sh!t out of me.) unfortunatly, I dont have much time to go to the gym and lift weights, how do you guys reccomend is the best way to deal with this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I guess you guys are all out lifting or something, but some imput on this would be nice, as I really want to change my apperance
 

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Originally posted by brenbaus
hey guys,

I only have one question, how do you develop your chest ( I have an underdeveloped chest, and it bothers the sh!t out of me.) unfortunatly, I dont have much time to go to the gym and lift weights, how do you guys reccomend is the best way to deal with this?
Unless you are working full time, going to school part time, and working part time on the side in a second job, you have time to go to the gym and lift weights. Don't be lazy.
 

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Re: Re: what can i do?

Originally posted by MetalFortress
Unless you are working full time, going to school part time, and working part time on the side in a second job, you have time to go to the gym and lift weights. Don't be lazy.
I am both working a full time job and going to school full time, I sleep like 4 hours a night, I honestly do not have time to go to the gym, when I am neither at school or work, I am doing homework.
 

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Re: Re: Re: what can i do?

Originally posted by brenbaus
I am both working a full time job and going to school full time, I sleep like 4 hours a night, I honestly do not have time to go to the gym, when I am neither at school or work, I am doing homework.
Well, I'm sorry mate but that's hardly a setup to gain any muscle from and that's the truth. Pushups at home might increase your strength or muscular endurance but won't force your chest to grow.

For proper chest growth you need access to a gym or dumbbells at least. Even one day a week would help but if you haven't got the time then it's out of your hands, don't worry about it .. there'll come a time when you can devote the proper time to training and recovery, but until then you'd best sit tight.

This probably isn't what you wanted to hear but it's the truth.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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