"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What brings more joy than Girls ?

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Playin in my rocknroll band. About to do a mini tour, and making our album. And workin lots to try to upgrade my crappy equipment! lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AznPlaya said:
This my 1st thread so i thought il put a lil magic touch on it so. Ye bonin hot girls brings u joy and pride and etc... So ive been gettin kinda bored of that iz nothin special 2 me, whatz more special 2 me know is my inner game anddd
really workin on myself ya dig :rockon:
What aboutch u guys ?

Hooking up with girls doesn't bring me any real happiness...just some thrills. I'll tell you what brings real joy...accomplishing goals and helping other people. Meditating really brings me a lot of inner peace. Any serious hobby, though, is also a form of meditating. Devoting your mind to only one thing. Get some things that make you happy and that you are passionate about and the women will respond...trust me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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