"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What brings more joy than Girls ?

woods

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Playin in my rocknroll band. About to do a mini tour, and making our album. And workin lots to try to upgrade my crappy equipment! lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AznPlaya said:
This my 1st thread so i thought il put a lil magic touch on it so. Ye bonin hot girls brings u joy and pride and etc... So ive been gettin kinda bored of that iz nothin special 2 me, whatz more special 2 me know is my inner game anddd
really workin on myself ya dig :rockon:
What aboutch u guys ?

Hooking up with girls doesn't bring me any real happiness...just some thrills. I'll tell you what brings real joy...accomplishing goals and helping other people. Meditating really brings me a lot of inner peace. Any serious hobby, though, is also a form of meditating. Devoting your mind to only one thing. Get some things that make you happy and that you are passionate about and the women will respond...trust me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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