"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What brings more joy than Girls ?

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Playin in my rocknroll band. About to do a mini tour, and making our album. And workin lots to try to upgrade my crappy equipment! lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AznPlaya said:
This my 1st thread so i thought il put a lil magic touch on it so. Ye bonin hot girls brings u joy and pride and etc... So ive been gettin kinda bored of that iz nothin special 2 me, whatz more special 2 me know is my inner game anddd
really workin on myself ya dig :rockon:
What aboutch u guys ?

Hooking up with girls doesn't bring me any real happiness...just some thrills. I'll tell you what brings real joy...accomplishing goals and helping other people. Meditating really brings me a lot of inner peace. Any serious hobby, though, is also a form of meditating. Devoting your mind to only one thing. Get some things that make you happy and that you are passionate about and the women will respond...trust me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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