davidsonj73
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I don't mean what are the top designer brands according to GQ (I could Google that). I am talking about in terms of brand recognition by women.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I Googled weeb. I had never heard the term before. Interesting!A tattoo or accessory with a story behind it would help too. I want a full sleeve but the cons outweigh the pros for me. Might get some Japanese Kanji tattooed on my wrist.
Rurouni Kenshin, "Hiten Mitusurugi Ryu" or "Hitokiri Battousai" in Japanese.
I'm a weeb.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, I don't think brand matters. Just clean pressed clothes that fit well and go well together. Whatever looks good on you and makes you feel comfortable and confident in your appearance.However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
When you say that I should hone my basic seduction skills what do you mean besides learning some jokes and DHV stories?If you're asking because you're trying to optimize your perception of status in the eyes of women, you also need to consider socioeconomic class. Lower middle class women and upper old money women are going to have wildly different perceptions and awarenesses of brands. If you want to niche down, go ahead and go down this rabbit hole.
However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.some jokes and DHV stories?
Thank you! I will read: Never Lonely!Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.
No matter what anyone says, the basis of seduction is kino escalation. This is one thing you must master no matter what if you want to be a seducer. Incorporate compliance testing into it, too.
Also use verbal compliance testing in a compliance ladder.
Sexual state projection takes advantage of natural human empathy via mirror neurons to turn women on. Escalate sexual state from low to high as your interaction progresses.
Use sexual framing in your verbal game when appropriate. Microcalibrate if needed.
Actively shut down ASD by communicating sex-positive attitudes and passively avoid triggering ASD by always being nonjudgmental.
F*ck DHV stories. Utilize active listening skills combined with behavioral shaping techniques instead.
There are a lot of other techniques you could focus on, all of which is discussed in Never Lonely. Mixing and matching whatever works best for you determines your style.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.