davidsonj73
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I don't mean what are the top designer brands according to GQ (I could Google that). I am talking about in terms of brand recognition by women.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I Googled weeb. I had never heard the term before. Interesting!A tattoo or accessory with a story behind it would help too. I want a full sleeve but the cons outweigh the pros for me. Might get some Japanese Kanji tattooed on my wrist.
Rurouni Kenshin, "Hiten Mitusurugi Ryu" or "Hitokiri Battousai" in Japanese.
I'm a weeb.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, I don't think brand matters. Just clean pressed clothes that fit well and go well together. Whatever looks good on you and makes you feel comfortable and confident in your appearance.However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
When you say that I should hone my basic seduction skills what do you mean besides learning some jokes and DHV stories?If you're asking because you're trying to optimize your perception of status in the eyes of women, you also need to consider socioeconomic class. Lower middle class women and upper old money women are going to have wildly different perceptions and awarenesses of brands. If you want to niche down, go ahead and go down this rabbit hole.
However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.some jokes and DHV stories?
Thank you! I will read: Never Lonely!Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.
No matter what anyone says, the basis of seduction is kino escalation. This is one thing you must master no matter what if you want to be a seducer. Incorporate compliance testing into it, too.
Also use verbal compliance testing in a compliance ladder.
Sexual state projection takes advantage of natural human empathy via mirror neurons to turn women on. Escalate sexual state from low to high as your interaction progresses.
Use sexual framing in your verbal game when appropriate. Microcalibrate if needed.
Actively shut down ASD by communicating sex-positive attitudes and passively avoid triggering ASD by always being nonjudgmental.
F*ck DHV stories. Utilize active listening skills combined with behavioral shaping techniques instead.
There are a lot of other techniques you could focus on, all of which is discussed in Never Lonely. Mixing and matching whatever works best for you determines your style.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.