davidsonj73
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I don't mean what are the top designer brands according to GQ (I could Google that). I am talking about in terms of brand recognition by women.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I Googled weeb. I had never heard the term before. Interesting!A tattoo or accessory with a story behind it would help too. I want a full sleeve but the cons outweigh the pros for me. Might get some Japanese Kanji tattooed on my wrist.
Rurouni Kenshin, "Hiten Mitusurugi Ryu" or "Hitokiri Battousai" in Japanese.
I'm a weeb.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, I don't think brand matters. Just clean pressed clothes that fit well and go well together. Whatever looks good on you and makes you feel comfortable and confident in your appearance.However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
When you say that I should hone my basic seduction skills what do you mean besides learning some jokes and DHV stories?If you're asking because you're trying to optimize your perception of status in the eyes of women, you also need to consider socioeconomic class. Lower middle class women and upper old money women are going to have wildly different perceptions and awarenesses of brands. If you want to niche down, go ahead and go down this rabbit hole.
However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.some jokes and DHV stories?
Thank you! I will read: Never Lonely!Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.
No matter what anyone says, the basis of seduction is kino escalation. This is one thing you must master no matter what if you want to be a seducer. Incorporate compliance testing into it, too.
Also use verbal compliance testing in a compliance ladder.
Sexual state projection takes advantage of natural human empathy via mirror neurons to turn women on. Escalate sexual state from low to high as your interaction progresses.
Use sexual framing in your verbal game when appropriate. Microcalibrate if needed.
Actively shut down ASD by communicating sex-positive attitudes and passively avoid triggering ASD by always being nonjudgmental.
F*ck DHV stories. Utilize active listening skills combined with behavioral shaping techniques instead.
There are a lot of other techniques you could focus on, all of which is discussed in Never Lonely. Mixing and matching whatever works best for you determines your style.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.