davidsonj73
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I don't mean what are the top designer brands according to GQ (I could Google that). I am talking about in terms of brand recognition by women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I Googled weeb. I had never heard the term before. Interesting!A tattoo or accessory with a story behind it would help too. I want a full sleeve but the cons outweigh the pros for me. Might get some Japanese Kanji tattooed on my wrist.
Rurouni Kenshin, "Hiten Mitusurugi Ryu" or "Hitokiri Battousai" in Japanese.
I'm a weeb.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, I don't think brand matters. Just clean pressed clothes that fit well and go well together. Whatever looks good on you and makes you feel comfortable and confident in your appearance.However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
When you say that I should hone my basic seduction skills what do you mean besides learning some jokes and DHV stories?If you're asking because you're trying to optimize your perception of status in the eyes of women, you also need to consider socioeconomic class. Lower middle class women and upper old money women are going to have wildly different perceptions and awarenesses of brands. If you want to niche down, go ahead and go down this rabbit hole.
However, a better use of your time and effort would be to hone your basic seduction skills. It will help a lot more, and will be applicable to a far wider degree.
Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.some jokes and DHV stories?
Thank you! I will read: Never Lonely!Oh my god you have A LOT to catch up on. The easiest way would be for you to check the link in my signature, but I'll summarize a few things here.
No matter what anyone says, the basis of seduction is kino escalation. This is one thing you must master no matter what if you want to be a seducer. Incorporate compliance testing into it, too.
Also use verbal compliance testing in a compliance ladder.
Sexual state projection takes advantage of natural human empathy via mirror neurons to turn women on. Escalate sexual state from low to high as your interaction progresses.
Use sexual framing in your verbal game when appropriate. Microcalibrate if needed.
Actively shut down ASD by communicating sex-positive attitudes and passively avoid triggering ASD by always being nonjudgmental.
F*ck DHV stories. Utilize active listening skills combined with behavioral shaping techniques instead.
There are a lot of other techniques you could focus on, all of which is discussed in Never Lonely. Mixing and matching whatever works best for you determines your style.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.