Next month, I'm DJing—disk jockeying—a Christmas party and expect to be mixing regular music along with some electronic music, perhaps. The problem is I'm not too well-versed on my holiday music. I'm going to sift through charts/playlists and what not, but I'd still like to hear your opinions. I downloaded the Trans-Siberian Orchestra, but that's about it for what I know.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
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What are your favorite holiday tunes?
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Carol of the Bells!
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
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Can't go wrong with either of these:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
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That song by John Lennon called "This is Christmas".
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
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Forget "Holiday tunes", it all about Christmas tunes!!!
Haha. Yes
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Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
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