Next month, I'm DJing—disk jockeying—a Christmas party and expect to be mixing regular music along with some electronic music, perhaps. The problem is I'm not too well-versed on my holiday music. I'm going to sift through charts/playlists and what not, but I'd still like to hear your opinions. I downloaded the Trans-Siberian Orchestra, but that's about it for what I know.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What are your favorite holiday tunes?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Carol of the Bells!
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Can't go wrong with either of these:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
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That song by John Lennon called "This is Christmas".
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
ExcelNPrevail
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Forget "Holiday tunes", it all about Christmas tunes!!!
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.