Next month, I'm DJing—disk jockeying—a Christmas party and expect to be mixing regular music along with some electronic music, perhaps. The problem is I'm not too well-versed on my holiday music. I'm going to sift through charts/playlists and what not, but I'd still like to hear your opinions. I downloaded the Trans-Siberian Orchestra, but that's about it for what I know.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What are your favorite holiday tunes?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Carol of the Bells!
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Can't go wrong with either of these:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
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That song by John Lennon called "This is Christmas".
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
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Forget "Holiday tunes", it all about Christmas tunes!!!
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.