Next month, I'm DJing—disk jockeying—a Christmas party and expect to be mixing regular music along with some electronic music, perhaps. The problem is I'm not too well-versed on my holiday music. I'm going to sift through charts/playlists and what not, but I'd still like to hear your opinions. I downloaded the Trans-Siberian Orchestra, but that's about it for what I know.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What are your favorite holiday tunes?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Carol of the Bells!
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
which is probably the song you already have, but nice choice either way.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Can't go wrong with either of these:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0T2ha3gMJU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poVdBVhT4Ss
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That song by John Lennon called "This is Christmas".
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
Well I think thats the title of it anyway.
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Forget "Holiday tunes", it all about Christmas tunes!!!
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
Haha. Yes
Cool.Awesome.Yeah
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.