"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What Are Your Biggest Fears In Pickup?

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I'd like to know guys, what are your biggest fears, frustrations and concerns about pickup? This can range from anything approaching to closing or anything similar.

-SoCal
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One of my "fears" is getting into a confrontation with some cokblocker afc. I know I can hold my own in a fight, I just hate fighting though.
 

War Against Betaism

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Honestly, it's confronting the "jealous ex boyfriend" of whoever I'm talking to. In my area, people do some stupid sh1t over girls, like I know a couple of stories of guys who shot each other up because they were fighting over a girl (an even more ridiculous story is that a guy got killed over a hat). I just don't wanna one day have to face through a situation like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My Body Language ... I have to learn more in that.

And I AM scared when I am in a set, and girls start to look each other. DAMN :D
 

Kid Style

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The most common fear....rejection! I've gotten used to rejection and my confidence outweighs it, but I still fear it everytime.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LostAndConfused

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not knowing what the **** to say. and the **** happens too so my fears actually have substance.

its hard as hell especially when either the girl doesn't hold up her end of the conversation, or if she's too shy to do so.

actually this isn't a fear, its a legitimate problem. small talk seems lame as ****.
 

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Simple, that gut ripping feeling when you can't seem to get your game on. it;s the worst experiance in the world. You know that your a nice, cool, sexy man... but when you game just doesn't go, I feel like CRAP, then I curl up into a ball and have to spend like 2 days psycin myself back up so I can pick up. It's horrible, and the one thing that I fear more then anything in this game... is my own social shortcommings and lack of skills at time.
 

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Choosing the wrong one.

I like to be playful and I naturally kino a lot,, the problem isn't to keep the convo going, but sometimes I encounter a rude chick that doesn't like to have fun... And she may be like "STOP touching me YOU CREEP"

Apart from that... What's there to be afraid of?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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romangod

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Throwing my back out.
 

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Trucks. Trucks are my biggest fear. I constantly worry about getting run down by a truck while gaming women. I always look behind me to make sure that there are no stray trucks looking to hit me. They're everywhere. Clubs, Bars, Malls- No where is safe from trucks.
 

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simply rejection...but I'm getting betta at not giving a dang.
 

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romangod said:
Throwing my back out.

I lol'ed for real at that. :crackup:

But really, this thread is silly. The ONLY fear when doing a "pickup" is that you may miss a better female while gaming your current target.
 
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Bringing this up once again! It's a new year! Have your overcame your fears? Are your fears the same or have new ones came to surface? Speak your mind!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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