"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"What are you thinking?"

69waystodie

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Do girls ever ask you guys this mid-hook up? I had (an albeit, inexperienced) girl over Saturday night, whom I was fingering and they she would randomly stop making out and say something along the lines of "what are you thinking right now. Thinking back, this has happened a few times in the past, usually with younger/inexperienced girls, and I usually just don't respond. This girl was a virgin/wouldn't go any further fyi.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jimmy18

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Don't respond logically.

Say something playful and vague like "I'm thinking about the meaning of life".

Just like when a girl asks how many girls you have slept with. Don't respond truthfully but say something like "more than 1 less than 100".
 
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I've had it happen before..I think I said something like.."wondering what your mouth around my d1ck would feel like" she then preceded to suck.

lol

What I hate is when they say "so what am I to you?"
 

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Clever responses guys. Totally regret not thinking of that line, Rival!
 

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It's a very loaded question. I've had it come up a few times and the times when I successfully navigated it was when I answered lightly and playfully. I like the suggested comments, keep it fun.

I clearly remember one time when I failed a similiar test. I was messing around with a chick and things were heating up. We were co-workers so the situation was a little tricky (this is why I've made a commitment to stop dipping in that old company ink). She asked a similiar question and instead of brushing it off and continuing I attempted to answer truthfully.

MOMENTUM KILLED!!!

It literally killed the mood, dead in it's tracks. We didn't end up having sex that night but did very shortly after that.

So for the love of sweet baby jaysus DO NOT LET THEM SUCK YOU IN INTO A DEEP DISCUSSION.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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