"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"What are you thinking?"

69waystodie

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Do girls ever ask you guys this mid-hook up? I had (an albeit, inexperienced) girl over Saturday night, whom I was fingering and they she would randomly stop making out and say something along the lines of "what are you thinking right now. Thinking back, this has happened a few times in the past, usually with younger/inexperienced girls, and I usually just don't respond. This girl was a virgin/wouldn't go any further fyi.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't respond logically.

Say something playful and vague like "I'm thinking about the meaning of life".

Just like when a girl asks how many girls you have slept with. Don't respond truthfully but say something like "more than 1 less than 100".
 
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I've had it happen before..I think I said something like.."wondering what your mouth around my d1ck would feel like" she then preceded to suck.

lol

What I hate is when they say "so what am I to you?"
 

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Clever responses guys. Totally regret not thinking of that line, Rival!
 

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It's a very loaded question. I've had it come up a few times and the times when I successfully navigated it was when I answered lightly and playfully. I like the suggested comments, keep it fun.

I clearly remember one time when I failed a similiar test. I was messing around with a chick and things were heating up. We were co-workers so the situation was a little tricky (this is why I've made a commitment to stop dipping in that old company ink). She asked a similiar question and instead of brushing it off and continuing I attempted to answer truthfully.

MOMENTUM KILLED!!!

It literally killed the mood, dead in it's tracks. We didn't end up having sex that night but did very shortly after that.

So for the love of sweet baby jaysus DO NOT LET THEM SUCK YOU IN INTO A DEEP DISCUSSION.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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