"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"What are you thinking?"

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Do girls ever ask you guys this mid-hook up? I had (an albeit, inexperienced) girl over Saturday night, whom I was fingering and they she would randomly stop making out and say something along the lines of "what are you thinking right now. Thinking back, this has happened a few times in the past, usually with younger/inexperienced girls, and I usually just don't respond. This girl was a virgin/wouldn't go any further fyi.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't respond logically.

Say something playful and vague like "I'm thinking about the meaning of life".

Just like when a girl asks how many girls you have slept with. Don't respond truthfully but say something like "more than 1 less than 100".
 
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I've had it happen before..I think I said something like.."wondering what your mouth around my d1ck would feel like" she then preceded to suck.

lol

What I hate is when they say "so what am I to you?"
 
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Clever responses guys. Totally regret not thinking of that line, Rival!
 
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It's a very loaded question. I've had it come up a few times and the times when I successfully navigated it was when I answered lightly and playfully. I like the suggested comments, keep it fun.

I clearly remember one time when I failed a similiar test. I was messing around with a chick and things were heating up. We were co-workers so the situation was a little tricky (this is why I've made a commitment to stop dipping in that old company ink). She asked a similiar question and instead of brushing it off and continuing I attempted to answer truthfully.

MOMENTUM KILLED!!!

It literally killed the mood, dead in it's tracks. We didn't end up having sex that night but did very shortly after that.

So for the love of sweet baby jaysus DO NOT LET THEM SUCK YOU IN INTO A DEEP DISCUSSION.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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