"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are you looking for in a lady?

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So on my recent adventures of single life i have found more times than enough the question being asked...

What are you looking for in a lady?

This poses a good question because all are different some i am after a bit of fun and will say whatever they want to hear be it funny or dirty.

But other girls wanting a half sensible response to tell you the truth i am lost for words. Can anyone suggest a positive response.

Many Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fuk what they want. The question focuses on you...

The answer is a derivative of what you want. Why not just tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may?
 
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I want a woman who is smart , has good politics, is spiritual , athletic , sexy , good in bed , fun to hang out with , artistic , creative , has done at least one japanese martial art , likes cartoons and can cook.
 
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Oh , and is bisexual.
 
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Did I mention she should be able to cook?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Right now I just want a girl that's beautiful or really cute with brown or black hair. She's not taller than me and she is open about sex.
 
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A woman with a voice that I can stand to hear would be a treat.

Too often, ladies have this shriek/whine/peep of a voice that is like dragging fingernails down a chalkboard to me. You HAVE to talk to women, and you HAVE to listen to them. If listening to them was pleasant, then it's easier to listen to them.

I'm looking for a "Meow, meow, meow meow meow"
instead of a "Spike, peep, beep, yipe, screetch screetch"

(in addition to some other things above, like cooking)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aside from all the obvious stuff, like being hot and fit, cooking, great in bed, etc, for me she needs to be socially outgoing, yet RELAXED. I can't stand chicks who are demanding, moody, flip out easily, or are drama magnets. It's all the same thing - they don't have a relaxed personality.
 
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If a woman asks what you are looking for in a woman the best response I have found is
"I don't know exactly but I hope I'll know when I see her"
 
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