"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are you looking for in a lady?

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So on my recent adventures of single life i have found more times than enough the question being asked...

What are you looking for in a lady?

This poses a good question because all are different some i am after a bit of fun and will say whatever they want to hear be it funny or dirty.

But other girls wanting a half sensible response to tell you the truth i am lost for words. Can anyone suggest a positive response.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fuk what they want. The question focuses on you...

The answer is a derivative of what you want. Why not just tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may?
 
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I want a woman who is smart , has good politics, is spiritual , athletic , sexy , good in bed , fun to hang out with , artistic , creative , has done at least one japanese martial art , likes cartoons and can cook.
 
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Oh , and is bisexual.
 
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Did I mention she should be able to cook?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FM 3321

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Right now I just want a girl that's beautiful or really cute with brown or black hair. She's not taller than me and she is open about sex.
 
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A woman with a voice that I can stand to hear would be a treat.

Too often, ladies have this shriek/whine/peep of a voice that is like dragging fingernails down a chalkboard to me. You HAVE to talk to women, and you HAVE to listen to them. If listening to them was pleasant, then it's easier to listen to them.

I'm looking for a "Meow, meow, meow meow meow"
instead of a "Spike, peep, beep, yipe, screetch screetch"

(in addition to some other things above, like cooking)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aside from all the obvious stuff, like being hot and fit, cooking, great in bed, etc, for me she needs to be socially outgoing, yet RELAXED. I can't stand chicks who are demanding, moody, flip out easily, or are drama magnets. It's all the same thing - they don't have a relaxed personality.
 
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If a woman asks what you are looking for in a woman the best response I have found is
"I don't know exactly but I hope I'll know when I see her"
 
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