"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are you looking for in a lady?

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So on my recent adventures of single life i have found more times than enough the question being asked...

What are you looking for in a lady?

This poses a good question because all are different some i am after a bit of fun and will say whatever they want to hear be it funny or dirty.

But other girls wanting a half sensible response to tell you the truth i am lost for words. Can anyone suggest a positive response.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fuk what they want. The question focuses on you...

The answer is a derivative of what you want. Why not just tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may?
 
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I want a woman who is smart , has good politics, is spiritual , athletic , sexy , good in bed , fun to hang out with , artistic , creative , has done at least one japanese martial art , likes cartoons and can cook.
 
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Oh , and is bisexual.
 
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Did I mention she should be able to cook?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Right now I just want a girl that's beautiful or really cute with brown or black hair. She's not taller than me and she is open about sex.
 
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A woman with a voice that I can stand to hear would be a treat.

Too often, ladies have this shriek/whine/peep of a voice that is like dragging fingernails down a chalkboard to me. You HAVE to talk to women, and you HAVE to listen to them. If listening to them was pleasant, then it's easier to listen to them.

I'm looking for a "Meow, meow, meow meow meow"
instead of a "Spike, peep, beep, yipe, screetch screetch"

(in addition to some other things above, like cooking)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Aside from all the obvious stuff, like being hot and fit, cooking, great in bed, etc, for me she needs to be socially outgoing, yet RELAXED. I can't stand chicks who are demanding, moody, flip out easily, or are drama magnets. It's all the same thing - they don't have a relaxed personality.
 
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If a woman asks what you are looking for in a woman the best response I have found is
"I don't know exactly but I hope I'll know when I see her"
 
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