"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad! :confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad!
LOL If you are being serious: You prolly just have a different taste in music that's all.


Song I'm currently listening to:
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts 1-9) - Pink Floyd
 

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3DD - Ticket to heaven
 

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Jae Mills, Camron, and T.I - Oh No remix
 

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3 doors down - ticket to heaven

my favorite song of week
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Walkmen - Everyone Who Pretended to Like Me is Gone

Modest Mouse - The Moon & Antarctica

!!! - Louden Up Now

Franz Ferdinand - Franz Ferdinand

Sonic Youth - Daydream Nation

Stars - Heart


Those are albums BTW not songs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since this visit to the site...

Incubus - Talk Shows on Mute
Finch - Ender
Primus - Electric Uncle Sam
Guster - Demons
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Porcelin
Primus - Welcome to this World
 

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Black Eyed Peas - Anxiety
 

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad
Same here... sadly.. Most of them are rap... Actually I know the artists not the songs... I hate rap besides Eminem. I can dance to it, but listening just makes me tired. It all sounds so stupid. Same with Action Movies, they put me to sleep... I can only watch indies that carry subliminal points and now I'm actually driffting back to books again. T.V.'s getting really borring... I'm reading Dante again... Besides Eminem I enoy the

fur elise
D12- revelation
Eminem- Amityvil
Em- Fight Music(I have a funny story about this but that can hold)
Em-Purple Pills(Hills) Them things are fun:D
Em-Marshall Mathers
Em-Drugs are Bad
Pretty much anything em except his never stuff... i like his Underground **** and his original music.

I hate 50... he's too played up and he's really not that good. He does have an okay voice...

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Anyway... Sides Em I love the Classical Italian ****... Makes me feel all GodFathery.lol

Then Dido... She's kickass. I like her ****. Specially her CD Life for Rent. I love #8 I think.... where she's comming back to her flat. nough said

Abeeda.
Capi
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Capi Crimini

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Hahaha...That might be true of mainstream rap. I personally left the mainstream a long time ago. Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...Makes Em look like Vanilla Ice.
 

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Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...
I've known about Underground **** for a while... I've been listening to it on and off for two years now...

I've heard of a few of the above... Personally I still prefer Eminem... personal pref. I just relate to him more then most fo the underground ****.
 

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THE ONLY Rap songs that I like are:

2Pac - You can't see me

Blackstar - Respiration

Deltron 3030 - Mastermind

Eminem - Our house

MOP - Cold as ice (Cover of Foreigners version)

Notorious BIG - Notorious Thugz

I'm mainly a Rock/Metal/Punk guy.

I only like those songs 'cause I heard them in a rollerblading video and thought they sounded pretty cool. (Yeah I blade, and what. F u skaters who got a problem with it.)
 

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Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)

Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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