"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad! :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad!
LOL If you are being serious: You prolly just have a different taste in music that's all.


Song I'm currently listening to:
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts 1-9) - Pink Floyd
 

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3DD - Ticket to heaven
 

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Jae Mills, Camron, and T.I - Oh No remix
 

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3 doors down - ticket to heaven

my favorite song of week
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Walkmen - Everyone Who Pretended to Like Me is Gone

Modest Mouse - The Moon & Antarctica

!!! - Louden Up Now

Franz Ferdinand - Franz Ferdinand

Sonic Youth - Daydream Nation

Stars - Heart


Those are albums BTW not songs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Since this visit to the site...

Incubus - Talk Shows on Mute
Finch - Ender
Primus - Electric Uncle Sam
Guster - Demons
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Porcelin
Primus - Welcome to this World
 

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Black Eyed Peas - Anxiety
 

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad
Same here... sadly.. Most of them are rap... Actually I know the artists not the songs... I hate rap besides Eminem. I can dance to it, but listening just makes me tired. It all sounds so stupid. Same with Action Movies, they put me to sleep... I can only watch indies that carry subliminal points and now I'm actually driffting back to books again. T.V.'s getting really borring... I'm reading Dante again... Besides Eminem I enoy the

fur elise
D12- revelation
Eminem- Amityvil
Em- Fight Music(I have a funny story about this but that can hold)
Em-Purple Pills(Hills) Them things are fun:D
Em-Marshall Mathers
Em-Drugs are Bad
Pretty much anything em except his never stuff... i like his Underground **** and his original music.

I hate 50... he's too played up and he's really not that good. He does have an okay voice...

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Anyway... Sides Em I love the Classical Italian ****... Makes me feel all GodFathery.lol

Then Dido... She's kickass. I like her ****. Specially her CD Life for Rent. I love #8 I think.... where she's comming back to her flat. nough said

Abeeda.
Capi
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Capi Crimini

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Hahaha...That might be true of mainstream rap. I personally left the mainstream a long time ago. Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...Makes Em look like Vanilla Ice.
 

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Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...
I've known about Underground **** for a while... I've been listening to it on and off for two years now...

I've heard of a few of the above... Personally I still prefer Eminem... personal pref. I just relate to him more then most fo the underground ****.
 

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THE ONLY Rap songs that I like are:

2Pac - You can't see me

Blackstar - Respiration

Deltron 3030 - Mastermind

Eminem - Our house

MOP - Cold as ice (Cover of Foreigners version)

Notorious BIG - Notorious Thugz

I'm mainly a Rock/Metal/Punk guy.

I only like those songs 'cause I heard them in a rollerblading video and thought they sounded pretty cool. (Yeah I blade, and what. F u skaters who got a problem with it.)
 

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Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)

Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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