"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad! :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad!
LOL If you are being serious: You prolly just have a different taste in music that's all.


Song I'm currently listening to:
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts 1-9) - Pink Floyd
 

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3DD - Ticket to heaven
 

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Jae Mills, Camron, and T.I - Oh No remix
 

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3 doors down - ticket to heaven

my favorite song of week
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Walkmen - Everyone Who Pretended to Like Me is Gone

Modest Mouse - The Moon & Antarctica

!!! - Louden Up Now

Franz Ferdinand - Franz Ferdinand

Sonic Youth - Daydream Nation

Stars - Heart


Those are albums BTW not songs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Since this visit to the site...

Incubus - Talk Shows on Mute
Finch - Ender
Primus - Electric Uncle Sam
Guster - Demons
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Porcelin
Primus - Welcome to this World
 

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Black Eyed Peas - Anxiety
 

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I know none of the Artists or songs listed on this entire thread! Is this good or bad
Same here... sadly.. Most of them are rap... Actually I know the artists not the songs... I hate rap besides Eminem. I can dance to it, but listening just makes me tired. It all sounds so stupid. Same with Action Movies, they put me to sleep... I can only watch indies that carry subliminal points and now I'm actually driffting back to books again. T.V.'s getting really borring... I'm reading Dante again... Besides Eminem I enoy the

fur elise
D12- revelation
Eminem- Amityvil
Em- Fight Music(I have a funny story about this but that can hold)
Em-Purple Pills(Hills) Them things are fun:D
Em-Marshall Mathers
Em-Drugs are Bad
Pretty much anything em except his never stuff... i like his Underground **** and his original music.

I hate 50... he's too played up and he's really not that good. He does have an okay voice...

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Anyway... Sides Em I love the Classical Italian ****... Makes me feel all GodFathery.lol

Then Dido... She's kickass. I like her ****. Specially her CD Life for Rent. I love #8 I think.... where she's comming back to her flat. nough said

Abeeda.
Capi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Capi Crimini

I got out of rap because there's not that much original kick ass lyrics going on.

Hahaha...That might be true of mainstream rap. I personally left the mainstream a long time ago. Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...Makes Em look like Vanilla Ice.
 

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Listen to some Aesop Rock, Dizzee Rascal, MF Doom, or Murs...
I've known about Underground **** for a while... I've been listening to it on and off for two years now...

I've heard of a few of the above... Personally I still prefer Eminem... personal pref. I just relate to him more then most fo the underground ****.
 

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THE ONLY Rap songs that I like are:

2Pac - You can't see me

Blackstar - Respiration

Deltron 3030 - Mastermind

Eminem - Our house

MOP - Cold as ice (Cover of Foreigners version)

Notorious BIG - Notorious Thugz

I'm mainly a Rock/Metal/Punk guy.

I only like those songs 'cause I heard them in a rollerblading video and thought they sounded pretty cool. (Yeah I blade, and what. F u skaters who got a problem with it.)
 

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Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)

Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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