NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
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- 218
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Well?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What are you guys after?
- Thread starter NickSCFC2000
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2006
- Messages
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I think more guys here are in it to try and get a relationship. If they ONLY wanna fvck, they'd be doing speed seduction or something similar. Its a lot of work to be a respectable DJ, so people wanting a quick screw usually don't apply.
But hey, what do I know? This site has changed alot.
But hey, what do I know? This site has changed alot.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
A relationship
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
"a lot of work!?!" HAHAHAHAHA *wheeze cough cough* HAHAHAHAHA Understatement of the year award. RIGHT THEREAce of Flames said:
It took me three years of constant and neverending improvement to get me to the point that I am at right now. I still don't consider myself a true DJ, but I'm working at it.
The road is not for the faint of heart, but it is a helluva lot of fun.
BTW originally I came here as a WBAFC, and three years and two relationships later. I got what I wanted tenfold. Whatever you put in, you will get back out.
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
