NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
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Well?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What are you guys after?
- Thread starter NickSCFC2000
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 11, 2006
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I think more guys here are in it to try and get a relationship. If they ONLY wanna fvck, they'd be doing speed seduction or something similar. Its a lot of work to be a respectable DJ, so people wanting a quick screw usually don't apply.
But hey, what do I know? This site has changed alot.
But hey, what do I know? This site has changed alot.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
A relationship
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
"a lot of work!?!" HAHAHAHAHA *wheeze cough cough* HAHAHAHAHA Understatement of the year award. RIGHT THEREAce of Flames said:
It took me three years of constant and neverending improvement to get me to the point that I am at right now. I still don't consider myself a true DJ, but I'm working at it.
The road is not for the faint of heart, but it is a helluva lot of fun.
BTW originally I came here as a WBAFC, and three years and two relationships later. I got what I wanted tenfold. Whatever you put in, you will get back out.
comic_relief
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
